State Dept Tells Staffers To Avoid Using Gendered Language Like Mother Or Father

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The State Department reportedly sent a memo to staffers telling them they should avoid using gendered phrases like “mother” or “father” becuase they may cause offense.

In a Tuesday press briefing State Department spokesperson Matthew Miller said the directions on gendered language was a matter of “respect”. He added that while the memo may have had Secretary of State Antony Blinken’s signature on it, it did not come from his desk.

Miller said: “If you look at that memo, as I have done, it’s a standard government practice to try to encourage people just to be respectful of others and use the terms with which others are comfortable and talk to people the way that they would like to be addressed. And nothing more than that”.

Breitbart reports: The message, first reported on by National Review, told staffers that terms like “mother/father” and “son/daughter” were potentially “problematic” while urging them to start including their preferred pronouns in email signatures and meeting instructions.

The subject of the cable is “Modeling DEIA: Gender Identity Best Practices,” and its aim is to “increase understanding of gender identity and provide guidance on gender identity language and best practices that support an inclusive work environment.”

The cable says that gender is a social construct and that gender identity is a person’s “innermost concept of self as masculine, feminine, a blend of both, or neither,” which “may or may not correspond with one’s sex assigned at birth.”

It suggests that State Department employees identify their pronouns in their email signatures and when introducing themselves in meetings “to show respect and avoid misunderstandings.”

The memo went on to suggest such “commonly used pronouns” like “she/her, he/him, they/them, and ze/zir,” calling it a “personal decision that should be respected.”


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